WiseGiving

WiseGiving

This is a new website that u can search the financial report of the charities, so that you can determine the best donation methods of yrself by reading the objectives and financial spending of the charities.  I love this idea and suggest you to take a look of it.

No matter how much you earn, try your best to contribute the society in your own best way. 

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奧黛麗赫本的美容祕方

"For attractive lips, speak words of kindness. For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people. For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry. For beautiful hair, let a child run his fingers through it once a day. For poise, walk with the knowledge you'll never walk alone ... People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed and redeemed and redeemed and redeemed. Never throw out anybody. Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you'll find one at the end of your arm. As you grow older you will discover that you have two hands. One for helping yourself, the other for helping others."

這是赫本最喜愛的詩(由 Sam Levenson 所作)。在世的最後一個聖誕節, 赫本將這首詩分享給她的愛子 Sean 和 Luca。曾經打算將這段詩翻成中文, 再三考慮後, 決定讓它保持原味 - 不翻譯了。細讀後, 相信你也會很喜歡它的。 Quoted fr http://www.daisy-online.net/audrey/beautysecrets.htm

Simple is the best

Time flies, my bd will be coming again on this Wed., I was very busy in the past few months and suddenly i think....... i would like to enjoy my 33 years old bd quietly. No fancy meal, bd cake, gift etc.... that's gd enough as I do want to enjoy the time alone with my bf. It sounds pretty amazing in my eyes i got such plan. Maybe ... the busy working life do drive me crazy so that I wanna to settle down and enjoy one of my important days with the one I love quietly.

I am very happy to have him to spend this day with me. That's good enough. Thanks god & him fr the bottom of my heart.

Btw, Napoleon BD cake is still my favourite :)

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Apple - MacBook

Apple - MacBook

YEAH! the 1st Mac Book I am playing with even it is not owned by me. It is temporary living with me now , hohohoh. I m wondering, when I will addict to Mac .... when i touch it more . more and more.

U, devil muscle ! if i do addict to it, i will not let u to take it away fr my home :P

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FAT

I cannot imagine that even my neighbour told me that I look fatter than before !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

JESUS ! I cannot imagine I face such problem in my life as I am a person who can keep eating non-stop but still thin ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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My 1st Business Trip to WZ, YW & SH

That's my route in the EIGHT days business trip:

溫州 (Day 1) --> leaving 溫州 to 玉環 (Day 2) ---> leaving 玉環 to 溫州 (Day 3) ---> Leaving 溫州 to SH (Day 4) --> SH (Day 5 - Day 8)

Temp. of these countries:
溫州 - around 37 °C
玉環 - around 38 °C - 40 °C
SH - around 37°C

Be frank, this is not funny to site visit the Factories under such high temp. The environment and air-condition of those factories are bad, workers have to work a dull and repeating job in a poor ventilation and dirty environment.

The objective on this business trip is to understand more about the vendors' requirements, what difficulties they are facing now in the product development for my clients. During this trip, I learnt alot since Trevor shared with me lot of job experiences on being a consultant or BA. He showed me a new angle on dealing with people, vendor and life. He is a good mentor in my eyes and feel glad that I have chances to work with him.

Unfortunately, I caught the Diarrhea in 玉環 since this place doesn't have the water supply in their local area. They mainly rely on 溫州 to supply them the water, therefore, the water quality is not as clean and good as Hong Kong. Remember, I love to drink the mineral and distilled water in HK ... so ......... I am sensitive to dirty water. I forgot this point and drunk the boiled tap water at hotel. Therefore, I went to toilet over 8 times a night and got the fever in Day 3. Luckily, one of my clients took the pills fr. doctor curing Diarrhea. Even though I felt a bit better after taking the pills and rest @ hotel, I almost fell down while waiting the bus heading back to 溫州. We were standing for over 10 mins waiting for the god damn bus under 38°C , I was dehyrated at this moment, that's why I suddenly out of focus and could see nothing for around 1 min .... it did scare my clients and Trevor. I was lucky as the Bus just arrived when I was BLIND .... After 'loading' me on the Bus and drinking the water... I could see this world again !

Heading to SH, I found that my wonderful business trip is just begun :P
Fay's uncle owns a factory in SH and would like to adopt the ERP system for their further business growth. I am interested in this project so I suggested Fay to visit his uncle's factory together. The main purpose is to explore any business opportunities to work on another BPR project in China (sure .. another purpose is for visiting SH, a place i haven't been there before, maybe that's the main purpose indeed).

I can retrieve what I have learnt fr. Trevor and practice it in SH. It is good as I got Fay as a translator. After studying their problems and understand the operation workflow, we deemed that most of the factories do have the problems on defining a clean role and responsibilities of staff, ambiguous tasks description, unclear operating flow. They think that adopting a ERP solution can help them to increase operation efficiency and standardize their workflow, but it is not. System is just a tool for them to monitor the communication and operation flow effectively, building a channel to store and retrieve the business information quickly. That's not a tool for u to solve the management problem... maybe will create more if launch a solution without a clear management direction and definition on staff's role and responsibility. I cannot help them to work BPR as I am not well-experienced in factory management, but I can check with HKPC and provide them a general guideline on TO-DO list in their existing moment. I hope I could help Fay's uncle as they are nice to me.

After this business trip, I realized that :
1. I still have much rooms to improve in lobbying skill, I am very young in this aspect
2. the difficult part on developing a software project is not the technical part itself nor picking a right solution ( I am afraid geek wl yell if he read this), the most important part is the change management. How to change the user mindset and their acceptance on using the software, that is one of the key factors to affect the successful development of a software project.
3. I am happy to have 'you' to stay with me during the time I suffering the pain. 'You' could teach me how to do and provide a mental support during the time I was weak. I know that 'You' are very important now :P
4. Even u caught something weird in the hotel room alone, like the TV would switch on automatically at 5am .. then kept on switch on and off itself, u didn't think too much, u could still sleep very well. That is, nothing is impossible depends on how you interpret the situation :P (just becoz’ i was so tired .. I didn't give a damn on it)

OH ......... what a long article ....... let's take a look of some pictures in my flickr album. enjoy it :D

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Thx god to send me luck that colleauges and friends have +ve feeling on this relationship. No matter what, I am happy that things going smooth as not what i expected.

The key point is, he is good to me and comfortable to get along with each other. That's worth thousand million dollars in my eyes. :D

Beauty Corner

I didn't love to wear make-up in hot summer coz' my 'super oily' skin type is not suitable to wear any foundation. Even though I don't like to wear foundation, I still insist to wear the makeup base and sun-screen product in summer. I cannot take any risk after I got a serious sunburn last time, doctor said I should stay away the sun shine if possible..... poor me, i love to play games with sun actually.

I highly recommend you the NARs makeup primer,

I love it so much coz' the cold gel do relief my sensitive skin and I can feel my skin becoming moisturized after apply it. It is important that this is an oil-free product and gives my skin a good protection before wearing any colored sun-screen product or foundation (if I do wear foundation :P)

For the sun-screen product, I love IPSA and Laura Mercier. The IPSA Protector Day Shelter Bright Vision can provide SPF30+++ which is good enough for protecting my skin. No allergic on my skin after taking this sun block product . As my skin is really sensitive, over 80% of the sun-screen products in the market can make me allergic ....... I did try La mer SPF 18 Fluid and you know what, my skin turns red for 3 days and finally I have to see the doctor !!! Even La Mer can soothe my skin but not its sun block ... ayee. Anyway, I don't take the risk to try a new sun-screen now .....

Laura Mercier Tinted Moisturizer - Oil Free do save my life as it can even my skintone as my skin turns red easily. I use the Porcelain color which can make me looking a bit 'pale' :P. Besides, it is really moisturized and oil-free !!!!! Oil-free is important when i pick the cosmetic since I have a skin type like a man - very oily indeed.

Next time, I will share some of my favourite skin products here. hehe.

Sad Love Story

Chatted with Joanne last night, knowing that her dog 'ar chung' died already after 'Yiu Yiu' (his lover) passed away. Ar Chung was a healthy dog but he decided to stop his life when Yiu Yiu passed away. My friend got 4 dogs and they were close friends with each other. Yiu Yiu was very cute but she got a sick .... doctor suggested to let her go ....... My friend told me that they couldn't let other dogs knowing that Yiu Yiu would be leaving them on that day. After Yiu Yiu died, they announced this new to the dogs.... u know ... the dogs could understand it and ... were crying all night long. I felt so shocking when I knew that dog really could cry ... .. that's not the amazing thing I heard, the most ..... horrible thing is ... 'ar chung' decide to leave this world with 'yiu yiu' after the 14 days when 'Yiu Yiu' passed away. Joanne said that there're no any signals that 'ar chung' would leave them ...... but they both sensed that he felt so upset.

After ' ar chung' and 'yiu yiu' left them... 'bobo' and 'duk duk' became quiet and inactive for around 2 months ......... u know, 'bobo' and 'duk duk' are crazy in my mind as they did grap my legs and treated 'it' like a sex partner ... they could be playing all day long ..... ayee..... when i knew this news, i felt a bit upset coz' i did like them alot.

Why i haven't heard a similar story which happen on a human? hrm...........

Wishing Yiu Yiu and Chung Chung live happily in the heaven.

You've got the answer

I could take a breath to think deep on my move while taking a drink at Kosmo (one of my favourite cafes in Central). It sounds like a difficult move but not as difficult as what i think once I confirm it. I learn much on this issue and know more myself.

I can be very logical once I kick out the emotional feeling in my heart. None of bitty or sad feeling to take such move. I think it is good for both of us and it is a great move for myself indeed.

Actually, gut feeling telling me that i may make such move after 1 - 2 months ........... just i don't want to give up and it sounds so cruel if i take such move..... sometimes, we can't be that emotional, esp. on the working environment.

It is a great experience, i will remember what i learn in this lesson. At last, best wishes!

Slient all these years

One of my favourite songs!

開始懂了

I bought 'Yan Zi Live Concert in H.K.' at SZ (thx Micheal took the risk to deliver the DVDs for us :P) ....... When I was listening this song, it did bring out my unforgettable memory in 2003. This song could express my true feeling and thinking at that moment. That's why it was my favourite song and listen it all the time. Even though the hardest moment had been passed and I shouldn't look back the past, I did remember what I experienced while listening this song.

Tonight, just wanna to document it as a record of my memory. Btw, i know that ........ no matter how hard we are suffering in our life, it will pass in a day, at last ... it is just an experience in our life....... life is an experience, we find our best way to deal with it .. and enjoy it .

Taking a roller coaster at 2:30 under Red-Rain alarm

Took a wonderful dinner at Bobo's home this Saturday. Tonight, we cooked the chicken wings, shrimp fries eggs, spaghetti and tomato soup. I do enjoy the cooking party as I can learn how to cook a new dish :D

Coz' I didn't take the glasses I couldn't stay overnight at Bobo's home (I will be blind if I don't take off my contact lens over a night !). Micheal felt so tired so It was dangerous for him to drive me home ......... SO .......... I decided to take a risk to take the Mini-Bus in a heavy rainy day. You can't imagine how fast the mini-bus in the mid-night, the route fr Tin Siu Wei to Mongkok ...... it is like sitting on a roller coaster. Last time i took 20 mins to arrive MK fr Tin Siu Wei. This time, it is even more excited coz' the weather was really bad. The non-stop thunderstorm and heavy raining could't stop the car driver, I could hardly see the building outside the window coz of the heavy raining and the sky was too bright coz' of the thunderstorm. I wonder I was taking the ship to Macau as this moment............ It is too scary !!! At last, I took 45 mins to arrive MK and then took taxi back my home..... Lucky me ... I could see many cars crashing in the middle of the highway, but I was lucky to go back home. I should grant a prize to my car driver >_<

Next time, I will take my glasses when I visit ceci's home (just in case u know). I will never take the roller coaster in a heavy rainy day, I can't take this exciting game anymore. Let see the pic of our lovely dishes, yummie. ^_^
Spicy chicken wings, it tastes good.

Shrimp fries eggs, cooked by Micheal

Micheal can cook so well !

Finally, finish our cooking !

Happy together

Before Sunrise

Celine: I had worked for this old man and once he told me that he had spent his whole life thinking about his career and his work. And he was fifty-two and it suddenly struck him that he had never really given anything of himself. His life was for no one and nothing. He was almost crying saying that.

Street Poet: Daydream delusion, limousine eyelash / Oh baby with your pretty face / Drop a tear in my wineglass / Look at those big eyes / See what you mean to me / Sweet-cakes and milkshakes / I'm a delusion angel / I'm a fantasy parade / I want you to know what I think / Don't want you to guess anymore / You have no idea where I came from / We have no idea where we're going / Lodged in life / Like branches in a river/ Flowing downstream / Caught in the current / I carry you / You'll carry me / That's how it could be / Don't you know me? / Don't you know me by now?

Before Sunrise (1995) - Memorable quotes

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I cant stop myself to watch it again as it is all my favourite. The taglines in between jesse and celine are great and funny, that's the wonderful and perfect relationship I would like to have. Two people can share the feelings with each other without any hestiation and they can keep on talking different topics with each other ............ full of laugh, funny and sentimental in the conversation.

It is too bad to get the 'Before Sunset' as I prefer the ending like this, leave the space for us to think about their future .......... even though 'Before Sunset' is not bad, I still prefer not to take the 2nd one ......

It is one of the best movies i really like in my life time.

陰謀論

albert 說我不是做consultant的好才料 (他不是想炒我, 請大家不要誤會), 不是能力問題, 而是我的性格不太適合當consultant...因為我不會及不愛作陰謀論........ 做一個consultant, 特別是專幫公司重組內部之流程及架構的, 是很精於公司政治及懂得預測人性的. 要一個BPR項目成功, 控制人心是很重要. 就算有多好的運作流程, 如不懂如何捉摸各重心人物的所思所想, 適當下藥, 就算你能使營運效率增加, 都不能成功推行..... 因為, 不是所有人都以公司利益為中心,其實, 自身的利益才是最重要..... 如是者 ... consultant需要多角度, 以不同'間接'手法, 令當事人心甘情願的接受改變..... 從一開始, 大部份的會議都是訪問形式, 以問題引導被訪者說出consultant所想的答案, 因為答案是由被訪者說出，所以．．．他們都十分接受consultant的提議． 這便是我經常開會所接觸的技倆. ... 那些 senior consultant 是很厲害的... 我是十分佩服. 但... albert說得對, 太功於心計的事情, 以我的性格, 是不會喜歡及做得出色.

所以, 我還是適合做project mgmt 及 business analyst, 因為我有較強的logical thinking 及 control skillset. 精於內部流程管理的Consultant工作, 我想....... 暫時不是我那杯茶.

近日, 有一些事情發生, 不知是否我多心....... 感覺有點古怪但有趣.....因為, 很難才有此感覺..... 但是...人的心... 是難以估計及理解.　　

Please help the poor

So Tired after selling the rice for Oxfam at CWB today. Ceci's friend is one of the members in Oxfam and she invites us to help her. In this event, I can feel that it is not easy to be the sales. Besides, people who look like elegant and rich are very stingy, esp. the woman in fancy and expensive cloth, they don't even give u any response when we propose her to buy it for charity. It only costs them $20 !!!!!!!!!! It is easier to sell the rice to the man and family. It is so bad that there is a hevay raining after 20 mins .... We cannot sell the rice to anybody as noone can get their wallet to pay for it. ...... :..( End up ...... we only sell around 20-25 packs of rice .....

I will respect the people selling 'anything' in the street coz' it is not easy to do it. We took some pictures during the time we selling the rice .. and after we finished our job.

Let's help Oxfam, originally uploaded by Jessmoon.

Recent update

Recent update on my life
What's this? that's the Egg Roll (蛋卷) with a nice packing. My colleagues felt so surprised when they received it. Suppose the packing looks ugly but it seems perfect if user for packing the Egg Roll. We consider to order it as a gift for every colleague in the annual dinner. HAHA. good idea. Btw, the Egg Roll is really really realy delicious.
Had a great lunch with mag and kin at CWB. The sashimi set costs over $300 at night but half price if take it at noon. Yummie.

My sushi set, i can select 8 different sushi in this set. I ordered different kind of fishes as i love eating fish much. always my favourite.See ! increditable, that's what I made tonight. It looks so great and do taste yummie, even my dad said that the egg tastes really smooth. Yeah ! Actually, I love cooking . Provid that my mum is not at home and the kitchen is clean. I guess, it is about time for me to think about moving outside to live alone (coz of this reason, i want to good at cooking). Living with my mum , i will never be able to enjoy cooking at home. Can I live with dad, bo and billy only? hm .... thinking.

My God Son - Woody

Crazy Woody !

中文

看見友人能用中文快速如神地寫blog, 我真的羨慕. 英文不是我的mother lang. 所以每當用英文表達我的內心所想, 便不太傳神. 所以, 我決定惡補我的中文打字. 我仍是堅持用速成輸入法, 需要多多努力!!!!!

中文曾是我的強項, 30分鐘內能作600字以上的文章. 小學時曾得全港小學生作文比賽優異獎, 我真的很難相信, 現在我的中文程度是如此不濟...... 很多人以為我愛講'鬼'話多過廣東話 (我那一口不咸不淡的外國口音是鬼婆老師教我的)........雖然, 我真的很喜歡外國的事物, 特別是藝術文化及時裝, 所以我努力學習英語. 但 ....... 我仍是對中文不忘不棄的. 請大家不要再當我是'鬼婆'了, 再者, 我沒有鬼婆那大如西瓜的胸部 !!! (雖然, 我都幾想擁有33C的夢幻數字..... )

今天很熱.... 還要出動..... 我的天.

A new challenge

Pic with my clients, originally uploaded by Jessmoon.

I got a new challenge in my work once my client confirmed to invite HKPC to implement the BPR (business process reengineering), my project is going to take longer time to finish it .... which means, I have to take longer time to get my commission ! damn it. That's why I urged my boss to get me a new project so that I can earn more in this year :P

I am so excited to work with the experienced consultants in HKPC. They did work a BPR project for HK policeman, a large-scale chain fast food store, Wallmart store etc... This time, we will work together and form as a project team to help my client to improve their operation process. That's mean, they will share their experience and teach me how to work on this kind of project. It is totally a new subject to me but I m lucky to get these guys to teach me in the 1st time. I am really excited now~ The whole reengineering process will be involved the change in the company culture, operation process, system automatization, roles and responsibility of different depts.... It may involve many political issues but it is challenging in my eyes.

I did learn alot in this project and it explore my knowledge on managing a large-scale project. Not only the project management skill, but the technique on how to analysis the client's needs and working the 'TO-BE' model for them before sourcing a right vendor. The vendor management technique is another skillset I have to train up. Even I have been working as the project management job for around 8 years, I do think that I am still young in project management field, no wonder all HKPC senior consultants look so 'mature' (sure, in terms of outlook .. they all look like my uncle) as you need to work different projects to earn those experiences, no short-cut way to become a good project manager unless you experience more.

Still feel very excited after the 1st kick-off meeting with them today ! Great to work with male team members, be frank ........ tell fr my experiences, i really find it difficult to work with female team members as most of them love to focus on some minor issues instead of prioritize the key issues and then finish it first. Simply speaking, they waste my time on bargaining the so-called their important issues .. but we got no points to argue as it doesn't affect the project schedule or even .. the scale ...... anyway. Maybe my perference to work with male as they are straight forward (sure .... not all man creature looks like this !)

I do wish that I can work a great project this time even I know it is not a simple job ... the timeline to finish it is 18 months ....

Lijiang

Feeling after the trip

1. I think I will stop my horse riding class as I do feel scared this time. It is quite horrible to fell down fr the horse unexpectedly. I feel bad becuz' I made my parents to worry about me. I admit that I should concern my parents' feeling as I grow up. I m lucky I didnt die as the horse moved his leg and tried to not kicking his leg in front of my head. I know that he tried to protect me but he did feel scared when the car was passing by and produced the 'Bee Bee' sounds to scare him away. Fuck the car driver as he did make me hurt !
   
2. There are no fair in this world except people get the sick. No matter how rich you are, when you get hurt or sick, you have to deal with the pain feeling. Everybody behaves or feels the same once getting hurt or sick. So ......... treasure yr health, a healthy body is the precious and most valued gift in our life.
   
3. I absoluelty understand why the people in China is eager to born their baby in Hong Kong. The hospital in China is really horrible and their professional & hygiene level do scare me to death, also... make me laugh to death as well coz' it was so unbelievable in my eyes, for example, they put the 'used' X-ray film to cover the window in the X-ray room ?!! When i looked at this, I couldn't stop my laugh even I was lying on the X-ray bed and felt fucking painful at that moment. Jesus !
4. Again ...... people is seeking for the fair world, irony, it will never make it work. says, the life of a childen in Hong Kong, must be totally different with the kid in the China farmer family. I saw a kid aged at around 5 - 6 years old has to earn for her living in Lijiang......she performs the head standing post to earn a few buck. She losts her childhood since the day she born in China poor family. You can find the babies in Lijiang get a pinky cheek as noone will get them a hat. That's why they get a dry sky and feels pain once the skin turns to bloody red color. Btw, you born in China, u are hardly to take a good medicial service as they don't think that a sick people deserves a special care. Like my case, it is very normal in their eyes and nothing turn to be that serious. That's why, I do think that I am enjoying a better life and good living standard now coz' i m living in Hong Kong.
   
5. Lijiang has become a commercial area ..... i feel upset about it.
   
6. I m lucky to have a good friend who takes care me well. Thx for her understand and sorry to ruin the trip like that.
7. I miss my dog so much during the trip. I know I love my dog really much.
8. Even I got hurt, I didn't feel really bad in the trip as I could take a rest all the time in the Inn. I felt relaxing ..... even I was sick.

You can read the pics taken in the trip on my flickr acc. enjoy it.

* Doc said that i should suffer the pain for more than a month .......... btw, i still don't know if I need to take the physio ..... shit.

Happy Birthday to Geek

Stars, originally uploaded by Jessmoon.

okay .. let me sing a song here ...

"Happy Birthday to u
Happy Birthday to u
Happy Birthday to .... AR GEEK
Happy Birthday to u'

YEAH ~~~~~~ what a lovely song !

Best wishes to you and your family to overcome the difficult times. WIsh you to settle down the job issues soon and build up your lovely private area shortly

Vintage Cloth

pic fr Bluebird

I love the vintage clothes selling at this store. Surprise me that Sofia Coppola is one of the Bluebird fans! amazing. I like her as I always think that she is feminine and sexy. She is the muse of Marc Jacobs.

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How to describe it?

What happen after I fall down on the street today afternoon (On my way to have lunch with colleagues)

1st) Why me?

2nd) Fucking pain

3rd) Kept slient coz' didn't want to speak

4th) 'Fuck up' , hurted 'inside' .. even no bleeding

5th) Couldn't straight my legs, once did it, so painful

6th) Used the Coca-Cola (Light & Zero) to be the cooler pad, it did help to relief my pain slightly

7th) Finally, got the cooler pad .... felt better

8th) Went back home, dad took the massage to relife my pain

9th) A colorful pic. on my skin around the knees

STILL FUCKING PAINFUL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Qing Dyansty Language

Chinese Village Struggles to Save Dying Language

Chinese Village Struggles to Save Dying Language - New York Times

Where I listen her interview, I think that life is that simple. We can have a happy life with food to eat, cloth to wear... and the lyrics of her song, making me think that life .. is like that. Take care children, working and then feed the family. That is.

How come the life nowadays becomes so complicated? Becoz' people desire too much and never be satisfied.

最放不下愛

Quote fr. CP1897.com

剛剛閱讀完素黑所寫的新書 - 最放不下愛. 當中有不少啟發, 不論在愛情的課題上, 或是情緒管理, 處事的態度及觀事的角度, 都給予我一些的靈感 ..... 最終都是, 如何活得更好. 好像是老新常談的題目. 當中, 愛並不是人生的全部, 但如何去愛..... 我想, 不是那麼多人會認真深究... 因為.. 有很多人的眼中, 所謂愛, 就是尋找符合自身'條件'的人成為'人生夥伴'. '條件'是基本的要求, 如'有錢, 風趣, 穩重, 有型'......人人不同, 或, 要求對方迎合自己而做某些行為去表達這便是愛 ..... 這種的想法, 在我眼中, 某程度上是私慾, 多於所謂'愛'. 當然, 人人對愛的見解不同. 我不會說我很清楚'愛', 但 ... 我有時想 ...我有定下條件嗎? 細心想, 我可以說 ... 真的是chemical的原因 .... 我愛他們的獨特個性. 就是這樣. 所以每當朋友問我, 那樣的男孩你才會有興趣? 坦白說, 我多會大笑然後胡扯說 "有才華, 有型 .... 有趣'.... 其實, 你若是我的好友, 便知道我真得不懂得回答. 我喜歡, 便喜歡. 所以你發現我曾愛上一個人人說他像'叫化子'的人....

無論如何, 書中有些內容, 想和你分享:

'愛' 是很誤導的一個字, 在沒有對等交流和溝通的關係下, 在雙方心智差異太大的情況下, 兩個人走在一起很難藉愛情得到精神滿足和提升. 深刻的愛情是互相提升, 不然便是拖累和糾纏, 結果會瘸朽.

我們可以為別人而活, 但不要為滿足別人而違背自己的原則和意慾, 不然, 妳只會失去幸福.

** 譯錄'最放不下愛'

Can't wait for it

I can't wait for my Ennegram Class in coming Thursday. I hope that I could understand how to use this theory to understand more about other's personality. Then .. I can find the best way to communicate with others. (Btw, I should learn more about how to solve my problem on communication ... that is, I m not patient all the time to listen others. That's my weakeness....)

7、享樂型
有才藝，樂觀的類型。積极主動，才藝廣泛，衝動，精力分散。享樂型在變化、多樣性、刺激和創新方面非常擅長。他們表達清楚，有幽默感，能夠讓其他人支持他們的想法。享樂型總是追赶潮流，尋求新的可能性和觀點。他們能夠同時進行多個工作，但不能堅持。不健康時他們會變得很嘮叨，注意力分散，能量不集中，許多工作都會半途而廢。在他們的最佳狀態時，享樂型會將焦點集中在有价值的目標上，工作會非常有效率。

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4、自我型
愛反省，有藝術才能的類型。表情丰富，能給人深刻的印象，自我吸引，情緒變化無常。自我型散發出獨特的魅力。在他們對好的詞語、創意及個人對產品的影響標 准的追求上，他們不會妥協。他們不喜歡沒有創造力的工作。自我型對批評過度敏感，這一點可能會導致他們變得情緒無常，工作沒有規律。在他們的最佳狀態時， 他們能將直覺力和創造力帶到工作中來，并用他們有深度和獨特的感覺改善工作，他們會欣賞其他的各种型格。

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5、思考型
觀察敏銳，好爭論的類型。求知欲強，創新，注重隱私，古怪。思考型是精力充沛的學習者和實驗家，特別是在專業技術領域。他們喜歡跟從他們的好奇心去理解細 節，探索原理。他們有很強的分析能力，鐘情于探索發現，而不是計划時間去約束和建立關系。他們不健康時可能會變得傲慢，不同他人做溝通，并經常會有思想上 的斗爭。在他們的最佳狀態時，思考型變得有遠見，能夠將全新的理念帶到工作中。

http://www.magnetintl.com/big5/9types1.htm

Spring Dinner @ CN

Had a crazy gathering with all CN team members on this Saturday. Too bad I didn't bring my lovely camera so that I can only take the pictures by Ming's mobile. * I uploaded some pictures in my Flickr Album. *

Who said we can't take pictures by ourselves? My lovely team members.


Fay, he is always my cup of tea to play with. He looks like the daddy in 'Ranma' (JP comic).

Someone said that he looks like Jay Chow (LOL)

See.... everybody gonna to be crazy in the mid-night.

All CN Team Members ~~~~~ okay, that's the boys club.

Gingko House - Support Senior Employment

在經濟及金錢掛帥、汰弱留強制度下的香港社會，長者常誤被冠以社會負累一族，每每所倡之政策，總是注目在提供福利、免費遊樂及醫療。同時，僱主們並不大願意僱用長者，就算本來有工作的亦要被迫退下來，沒空間讓長者繼續發揮所長。然而，政府政策中亦未為長者提供退休、就業輔導或再培訓等服務。

銀杏館::Gingko House

I went to this place tonight with mui. I didn't know the reason to visit this restaurant before i arrived. That's the place to employ the elderly. The boss is willing to employ them and support them to live in their own dignity. I do feel glad that someone is willing to provide an opportunity to the elderly. It seems that we highly appreciate to work fast and efficiency coz' our society is very competitive, we can't afford to lose and waste our time. Every minutes and money counts so that we ask for value all the time. We forgot that there are some people who are less competitive (e.g. inability, elderly) may need our help. That's why I feel happy to know that this place supports the Senior Employment Scheme. The elderly can keep on working and earn for their living. I can take a lovely french cuisine there and support the elderly as well. All waiters provide a nice and friendly service after the training. (Maybe some people may think that the boss uses the elderly as a gimmick to attract ppl ... if u think like that, i feel shame on you ! As you always measure the life in terms of $$$, 'freaking' hell.)

The food is not bad and the place is tidy with a friendly atmosphere. Loving' it :D

* hope mui could feel better after the dinner, that's the best i can do .. chat chat and treat her :D

Happy today

So happy to get a call from someone that's out of my expectation :P It is good to know that you still remember me (strange, I wanted to call him as well but he called me first :P)

So happy to take a great lunch with boss coz' we chatted alot in different subjects

So happy to work with boss coz' he is such a honest person. It is comfortable to chat with him and learn more about the business world from him.

So happy to see 'Bo' doing fine now after the surgery. Hope I would receive a positive testing report fr. NZ next week.

So happy .............. I can stay clam today and sleep early. Thanks dr. leung's herbal tea :D

Happy still ~~~~~~

MBTI Test

That's me ?
對ENFP人的描述：
健談熱誠，友善的﹔聰明好奇，愛玩的﹔關心体貼，溫柔敏感﹔富有想象力，頗具創新精神﹔智慧樂觀，适應能力強，但有時做事無條理。
hm .. interesting. http://kllc5.xddddd.com/mbti/result.php?token=
60e0a0fd5fca7f844ac20f736eb7ed62

MBTI Test~~~

Don't be too good?

You are lack of confidence, others think that you got everything and you are too good to be true, so .. he stepped back. Coz' he deemed that he can't give you anything coz' you got all the things. You are unique, you are smart, you are funny and always catch up new things in your life, but .......... you can't let him to feel that you need him. He thinks it is tired to catch a woman like you coz' you are moving too fast all the time.

okay..... maybe ............. just you think too much. you just love yrself more than you need me. You are interested in me........... just interest, not love.

If i knew your heart feeling early..... i would try my every best to tell you that I need you. I will stop and slow down to let u know it. Too bad, the feeling is gone ..........

I took a good lesson and I will tell all my feelings to next boyfriend! I don't want to feel regret in future.

Thank You - Sue

重新開始，不需要特定的地方、特定的時間，只要你願意，當下就可以是一個新開始。

重新開始 - CrystaLife - CrystaLife - Yahoo! BLOG

Thank you Sue to give me a good interpretation on my love life, my dark side, my problems on dealing with the love relationship. As she said, I knew but I didn't move on to solve this 'problem'. I am clear of what I should do, how to do it and my needs but that is not good enough. The key point is ......... I reject or reluctant to solve it. My problem is

1. don't let go (know the ending but still struggle to maintain the past relationship)
2. afraid of getting lose (no win or lose in love world, how come i forgot it .. i did know after broke up with jack)
3. reluctant or delay to solve the problem (that's the key point)

The card reading is a way to let me learning more about myself. Different card has different story. I do remember one of my cards show a story related to my thinking

"2 monks are crossing the river, a woman needs their help so that one of them carries a lady at his back to cross the river (that is, he touches the lady :P). After the monks went back to the temple, the one who didn't carry the woman make a complaint to the Master that his fellow carried a woman across the river, the key point is 'he touches her !". That's not the right action to a monk. When his fellow listen his complaint, he just replied "this issue is over coz' the woman is gone and we are in the temple now. Why you still remember this? It is finished and gone."

That's the card to describe myself in the love relationship.

Besides, my dark side makes me hard to start a love relationship. Others (new comers) may think that:

- I m protective (True, I am afraid of making friends with stranger sometimes... hard to believe)
- I m not easy to understand (hm .. i think i know the reason...)
- I need a result all the time (?!!, marriage? oh come' on, kidding me)
- I behave different after fall for this guy (?!!, maybe, just become ......... more soft)
- I m picky (?!! if i m picky, i guess, i m attracted by someone who can share similar interests and thinking with me, i know, it is not easy to get it in HK society..... )

Then ... why others interest in me ? Key point is

My personality (hm ... maybe, a bit different with 'typical HK gal', always catch rare thinking in others' eyes. Simply speaking, they found that this lady is interesting)
Man will not have -ve feeling on me, most of them are willing to know more about me

But the consequence is .. maybe boys feel that they need an ordinary girlfriend after they come with me together. (No wonder, all my boyfriends got a 'unique' character, otherwise, hard to get along with me :P)

Anyway, I m blessing to the one I loved before (not many, but i did have a happy time with them). Right now, I will move forward. That is.

P.S. If you have time, read this. That's one of Sue's card reading story, I feel so touching after I read it ...... )

Sue's contact no: 82360294 (just tell her that you are referred by 'Jessica'). That is.

More .. Enneageam

測驗結果:
第一型: 1分
第二型: 3分
第三型: 2分
第四型: 5分
第五型: 5分
第六型: 4分
第七型: 6分
第八型: 1分
第九型: 4分

性格形態學 -- 中文問卷

As boss requested us to pick up a topic to discuss with colleagues in China on next Saturday, our team members decided to present the Enneageam in the meeting.

I am reading the online materials to prepare the presentation and completed another test. Seems that I m closer to be the 第七型: 活躍型, 第四型: 自我型 and 第五型: 思考型.

I will learn more in March since I applied the course of Enneageam. I will share more ideas on this here once i completed my course.

对你好

When I read below article fr. 亦舒的BLOG, I really wanna to cry. That's what i feel .. that's what i really want ....... 对你好最重要! for the rest ........ i don't really care much. Is it so difficult to get someone really good to me? not really ....... just the one can stay with me happily, that's important in my eyes.

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对你好（选自《寒武纪》）

对方，不需要很有钱，不必英明神武，是否才华盖世，亦不重要，似不似玉树临风，也无所谓。只要他对你好，事事以你为重，普通人已经够好。

正如大作家所说，条件再好，“不爱我，有什么用？”物质同客观条件固然非常重要，但到了某一地步，人自然有心灵上需求，一个懂得尊重对方的伴侣，谈吐幽默，具生活情趣，又事事体贴，千金不易。

见对方能力略有不逮，即舍之而去，是相当不智做法，世上的确有际遇这回事，要给他机会，也给自己机会，都会遍地黄金，有志者事竟成。成功与欢乐如无人分享，只怕寂寞，还有，流泪之际，缺少一边牢靠的肩膀依傍，更凄惶不分。

物质与精神均感满足，才是优质生活，不用吃最好住最好穿最好，走出来最威风最神气。

崇尚功利，是商业社会至盛风气，无可厚非，有一定要有，优哉游哉，对方若志不在此，实在不必勉强。好伴侣一个鼓励眼神，一个愉快笑容，适当安慰，深切了解，均属生活必需。

对你好最重要。

有人从影数十年，不红，到处诉苦：“我从不迟到，亦不早退，听话，公司叫做什么，便做什么，公司叫做什么，便做什么，至今尚未名成利就，何故？”大有天无眼之感。未红，先骄，是致命伤；不红，不骄，却不计分，光是不迟到不早退，绝无可能造就一位明星，单单听话、服从，甚至不足以成为一位优秀公务员。

做任何一个行业，都得在岗位上有所表现，既红、不骄、不迟到、不早退、敬业乐业、有衣食，那才是高手。职业写作人，不脱稿就算尽了责任？非也非也，此乃最基本入行条件，切勿以为天天交稿就是对编者读者恩重如山、皇恩浩荡。内容才是最最最重要的一环，能人所不能者，地位才能最稳固，稿德稿质，缺一不可。

伴侣变了心，常听到有一方哭诉：“我做错了什么？”同样的逻辑：不错，是不够的，有人做得更好，略差的便遭淘汰，理所当然。什么时势了，光是守行为，便想拿功勋？没有这种事。

对你好（选自《寒武纪》） - 亦舒 - 新浪BLOG

Step Up

pic fr. http://myspace.com/stepupmovie

On my way home, I was listening Confessions Tour sound track (thx sam to burn it into MP3), I would like to dance on the street ! I pumped up an idea to rent some dance movies to watch, that's why i picked up 'Step Up'. I watched it with Mui at cinema before but i would like to review it coz I loved the dance shown in this movie. It is great, still. Suddenly, I think that if I was born in NY or United State, will i be the dancer? Sure, I can be a dancer in HK but as u know, parents wouldnt support me to do this.

This movie is a typical movie for youth... but i still love to watch it. It do make me to recall my days in the Jazz dance class. so funny. and also, the crazy dance in Hei Hei for over 4 hours ... that's so happy. Maybe i should call kin and mui to visit Hei Hei again for the crazy dance night again. That's not a bad idea.

Tarot

從小我便對神秘靈異的活動有興趣, 不知死的我, 五年級已到盛傳學校最猛鬼的地方試玩筆仙. 其他, 什麼銀仙碟仙我都曾經接觸. 最'驚嚇'的一役, 我在家中的鏡裏看見白色物體橫向飄過, 立即有心寒的感覺, 那時的我, 正藉傷心時刻, 所以都不太理會它, 然後回房睡覺.

我喜歡研究神秘學說, 中國易經, 紫微斗數, 西洋星座 ..... 無一放過, 越接觸得多, 發現萬變不離其中, 所謂的命運, 就是你的性格, 做就你所行的道路. 所有一切命理學說, 都只不過是精闢的統計學.但易經不是神怪學說, 是很高深的中國哲學. 我不太懂.... 我想, 再經歷多些人生經驗, 我會比較容易理解固中的道理.

人的潛意識也是很有趣的課題, 點解你會認為某事將會發生, 往後真的發生 (但是沒有任何具體的跟據斷定此事會發生) ... 是所謂的第六感?還是日常你接收了一些訊息, 已存入你的腦內, 當某些事情發生, 腦袋便很自然的歸納平時所知所見 (包括你不為以的事), 立即作出總結. 所以, 潛意識是一樣很神秘的事情. 其中 tarot 便是一種工具解說人的潛意識. 但當中如何清楚解說牌中的意思, 很少人能做得到. 我認識一位女士, 她是一個很好的解說人. Tarot Reader 有點像心理治療師, 她們用一個分析的手法, 令你用其他的角度了解事情的發生及經過, 讓你明白你潛在內心的所思所想. 其實, 我沒有向我的好朋友介紹此位女仕, 若然你真的很有興趣, 我才告知你吧.

說了這麼多.......我其實是想說說她給我解說了一些感情問題及狀況...... 現在的, 不想再說, 你愛便愛, 不愛便祝你幸福快樂 >_< . 往後, 有一個人, 我已經認識的, 會喜歡我吧. (我也喜歡他! 這真的很難.) 一個會教我很多知識的人, 一個極愛思考的人, 一個不容易表露自己心裏所思所想的人........ 我第一時間想起一個人, 我的父親大人. 我真的不知道我身邊有一個類似的人.... 不知道..... 我想, 要來的, 始終會來. 不來的, 再強求, 也是徒然. 當然, 我仍是希望他會立即出現, 不用等到年尾吧!!!!! <-- 這是今年的願望~~~~~hehe.

Pop Diva

I cant resist to buy her concert's DVD coz' I can hardly get this from the video rental store. This time, I made a right choice. I love Madonna becoz' I like her dance, I love her attitude towards her performance. She insists to perform well in every single details. Even she is going to be 50, she didnt stop and still try something new in her show performance.

Her figure ...... I can't think of any words to describe a woman in 50 to keep this shape ........ It is so perfect, I mean, it is all muscles, no fat ! my goodness. After I knew that she is very discipline in her diet and body training (spent around 6 hrs a day), I do think that it is not what the money can solve all problems. Even a person like Madonna needs to pay time and effort on maintaining her shape, I think all HK women should drop the ideas of losing weight by paying over ten thousands dollars for the beauty center to take this job.

I respect a person who is persistent to the thing she / he likes, and pay lots of time and effort to make it perfect, this attract me the most.

Madonna, no way to stop her ....... Too bad i didn't watch her last concert. Anyway, I still get the DVD [silly smile]

Muse

I bought this bracelet from a small store in TST. It is really nice. I love it very much.

It is that simple, but you don't believe it

Just watched a movie named 'The Prestigue', it was a bit boring in the begining ... at last...... the story became interesting as the ending did surprise me. The last few words in the last minute do make me thinking alot.

Now , you are looking for the secret
But you will not find it coz’ you are not really looking
You don’t really want to work it out
You want to be fool

現在你想找出秘訣
但是絕對找不到
因為你沒有真正在看
你並不是真的想知道
你想要被騙

Sometimes, we always want to find the truth but .. deep down, do we really want to find out the truth? Or ... we simply try to search for an answer which can comfort us. We don't really focus on our question, we just want to get what we 'want to hear' from asking this questions. Even we are being cheated or to be fool.

Once we get it . or it is closer to what we expect, we feel more comfortable.

Sometimes, thing is simple, just we deny it so make the things complicated. That is. There is no magic in this world but you still love to watch the magic, coz it gives you a hope.

That's what I really think about after I watched this movie. I do love this movie coz it can deliver some messages which induce me to think alot.

Pretty good for burning the time in Chinese New Year holiday :>

I will go on MUNCH & THE BUTTERFLY LE PAPILLON before Day 3 in CNY.

Wish you all a Happy Chinese New Year. Wish the people I know or even I don't know to enjoy their life in their own way. Pray for the sick and poor (mentally, physically or ... financially) to have a better life. That's my wish in CNY.

P.S. David Bowie played a role in this movie, that's surprise me coz' I cant realize him ... until i read IMDB. OMG, he is one of the performers I respect. Actually, he always explore a new challenge to himself that makes me like him.

YEAH !

張曼玉封偉大表演者

明報OL網

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回望

回望往日的自拍照，很不喜歡．因為很不自然，我想，我都不曾在鏡頭內表現自然的一面．．．．無怪乎．．．

傻傻的我，想拍，便拍吧。早上起床，都拿起相機拍吧．

隨心的，是最好最舒服的．

長者闖情關 人到黃昏也需要愛

今天是情人節，年輕戀人沉醉浪漫中，豔麗的玫瑰、精緻的朱古力、溫馨的燭光晚餐……其實，戀愛並非年輕人的專利，不少喪偶的長者，亦渴望老來覓得第二春，攜手共度黃昏中的情人節廣 告。

長者闖情關 人到黃昏也需要愛 - Yahoo! 新聞

"閒來看書、聽音樂、拖手逛公園等" That's romantic!

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The wonderful VD gift

樹仁大學舉行正名典禮 (14:17)

2007年2月14日香港樹仁大學今日舉行正名典禮，邀請行政長官曾蔭權出席，為「樹仁大學」揭碑。廣 告曾蔭權表示，樹仁以作育英才為己任，以學生的福祉為依歸，獲得「大學」之名，的確實至名歸。他指出，樹仁成為大學，彰顯了胡鴻烈校監和鍾期榮校長35年來對高等教育事業的理想堅持和無私奉獻，也標誌香港高等教育發展史上一個重要里程。

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吳 若 權

機 會 ， 在 河 流 的 彼 岸 ， 你 要 走 過 橋 到 對 面 ， 才 能 碰 到 它 。 」 總 之 ， 這 句 座 右 銘 的 意 思 ， 就 是 要 主 動 創 造 機 會 ， 而 不 是 被 動 等 待 機 會

Lady.atnext.com - 幸 福 人 哈 拉 - 時 間 就 像 是 乳 溝

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I think I will dress up even in the age of 65

當 你 65 歲 的 時 候當 我 65 歲 的 時 候 ， 我 要 不 要 像 Karl Lagerfeld ？ 這 是 個 我 不 用 考 慮 很 久 的 問 題 ， 問 題 是 ， 我 會 不 會 錯 手 把 自 己 弄 成 Karl Lagerfeld 還 以 為 自 己 是 Hedi Slimane ？人 人 都 說 要 age gracefully ， 究 竟 除 了 graceful ， 老 了 還 有 沒 有 其 他 的 選 擇 ？放 棄 ， 不 是 選 擇 ， 雖 然 很 多 人 老 早 揀 了 ， 而 我 到 了 65 歲 時 大 概 已 經 甚 麼 都 穿 過 了 ， 也 許 覺 得 扮 靚 對 一 個 郁 都 氣 喘 、 行 步 路 都 要 扶 枴 杖 的 老 人 來 說 很 辛 苦 ， 但 放 棄 好 看 的 衣 服 ， 或 者 甘 於 平 凡 ， 絕 對 不 是 選 擇 。橫 豎 到 了 那 種 年 紀 ， 睡 也 睡 不 了 那 麼 多 ， 朝 朝 4 點 半 已 經 起 身 ， 何 不 用 來 襯 襯 衫 呢 ？ 難 道 每 一 個 老 人 都 注 定 要 落 樓 下 公 園 仔 做 甩 手 操 耍 八 段 錦 嗎 ？

Text by 黃 偉 文

Lady.atnext.com - Buy me a Sunday by Wyman - 當 你 65 歲 的 時 候

I love Wyman, he loves fashion (same as I) and he can use funny wordings to describe what he see and how he thinks. You can check his articles on Lady.Atnext.com. Enjoy it.

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H & M

MADONNA AND H&M LAUNCH NEW FASHION LINE- 'M by Madonna' Collection debuts in stores March 2007H&M the international retail giant and their head of design Margareta van den Bosch have teamed up with Madonna to create a line of clothing and accessories that are scheduled to arrive in all stores carrying the women’s wear collection, around the world in March 2007, it was announced today.

H&M - Press - MADONNA AND H&M LAUNCH NEW FASHION LINE

OH man ! i m waiting for this coming to HK in March 10.

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Why

I love the melody of this song, really love it. I love the way she sings this song, so appealing.

Avril Lavigne -
Why, do you always do this to me?
Why, couldn't you just see through me?
How come, you act like this
Like you just don't care at all

Do you expect me to believe I was the only one to fall?
I could feel I could feel you near me, even though you're far away
I could feel I could feel you baby, why

It's not supposed to feel this way
I need you, I need you
More and more each day
It's not supposed to hurt this way
I need you, I need you, I need you
Tell me, are you and me still together?
Tell me, do you think we could last forever?
Tell me, why

Hey, listen to what we're not saying
Let's play, a different game than what we're playing
Try, to look at me and really see my heart

Do you expect me to believe I'm gonna let us fall apart?
I could feel I could feel you near me, even when you're far away
I could feel I could feel you baby, why

It's not supposed to feel this way
I need you, I need you
More and more each day
It's not supposed to hurt this way
I need you, I need you, I need you
Tell me, are you and me still together?
Tell me, you think we could last forever?
Tell me, why

So go and think about whatever you need to think about
Go ahead and dream about whatever you need to dream about
And come back to me when you know just how you feel, you feel
I could feel I could feel you near me, even though you're far away
I could feel I could feel you baby, why

It's not supposed to hurt this way
I need you, I need you
More and more each day
It's not supposed to hurt this way
I need you, I need you, I need you
Tell me

It's not supposed to hurt this way
I need you, I need you
More and more each day
It's not supposed to hurt this way
I need you, I need you, I need you
Tell me, are you and me still together?
Tell me, do you think we could last forever?
Tell me, why

Leo's Lyrics Database - Avril Lavigne - Why lyrics

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Pokfulam Public Riding School

I always dream of riding horse to across the Mountain. okay .. this year... i decide to make my dreams comes true.

2007 targets: learn how to ride a horse ! yeah !

Here are the places I m interested to take course there:
Pokfulam Public Riding School
Lo Wu Saddle Club

Pictures fr Pokfulam Public Riding School & Lo Wu Saddle Club

Memory

I am organizing my Photo Album in hard disk today.........I found many funny pictures, It do recall my memories and my old day. It was so happy.

Hope this happy moment would be happen all the time in my life.

P.S. I should grant a prize to the photograher as he / she can make me looking very sexy and girly. Hard to take this kind of pic again :P

Conversation. ....

"I agreed that you are thinking too much about relationship.... To me it
is just simply two person who bump into each other provided timing is
right and there is chance for the two to move on towards to the next
stage ---> a real relationship. Of course there are so many
conditions/criteria under different circumstances since everyone is made
different ...and our requirements are piling up as we age. If you still
have faith in relationship, you shouldn't be thinking too much about why
a person is still available at the age of 30's cos everyone has his/her
past. It is not fair to conclude those who are still single is problemed
one. I won't be able to judge whether one's expectation is realistic or
not because everyone's definition is not the same.

You won't even get 50% chance if you never move your ass to achieve what
you want. Of course it's frustrated if you fail repeatedly.... But
that's the learning process we have been through since we're born. We
all learn from mistakes and failures.... But don't let this to shrink
your confidence/ego .... Those who found you nice but never wanted to
commit to you is just a pretty "lie"... they ain't good enough for you.

You know what is your problem is? You are not bad enough.... And they
are not good enough." fr. A.

"for me, what u said is absolutely right. After my emotional feeling isgone, I still believe that love is sometimes 2 ppl bump into each otherin the right timing, no reasons, no clues, maybe there are stillreasons behind but not easy to calculate it. If we always put all thecriteria on the table and judge why the other one falls for you, thenwe simply kill the romantic feeling !

A person's personality can tell what kind of loverelationship they will have (mine is a perfect example). XXX caseis ... he is a man who loves to think much coz' he wants to increasethe successful rate in the love relationship. Love is something hardto calculate and judge by logical way sometimes. that's my feeling onlove." fr. B.

Special Thanks

Thanks you for you guys' caring, mui, kin, ming, geek, jack .... I know I am stupid on this issue but that's my feeling, I can't cheat myself. This time, I learn the way to present myself and true to myself. I don't hide my tre feeling and deny how I feel. Even.. it is stupid .. that's me.

It is so sweet that Kin proposes to treat me coz' he knows that I feel bad. So cute.

It is so touching that Mui stays with me all the time and searches the courses information to study with me together, to broaden our knowledge and community network. The main purpose is .. to meet more people for creating more interesting stories in our life.

It is so comfortable to chat with Ming, quote fr. his word "yes, tell him : You always pick girl by ur dick sense, why u ask me now? i dont have a dick and i will never able to know what u like. My goodness, it do make me laugh loudly and feeling better .. at that moment :P

Geek ......... I know that you are not a comforter (as you said), but what u said ...... (okay.. indeed you are in natural high mood...must be the result of you drinking some "dirty water" recently), the conversation with you do make me feeling so good. I can only say that you are one of the person who can comfort me in your own special way. No doubt since the first time we make friend with each other. Esp. your joke, do make me can't stop my laugh all the time. Actually, you are crazy in my mind.

Jack ..... well well well ......the conversation came up with your MSN message 'what's wrong with you before?', then i knew that he did read my MSN nick name .... Thanks for your word 'Poor girl' and 'this is not a love relationship', anyway, even we don't chat very often, we still can share our feelings.

At last .. I donno how to say much fancy wordings, but Thanks!

p.s. I took this picture long time ago when I was alone. I was very happy at that moment while testing my mobile. After I read this picture, I can sense my happy feeling fr. this pic.