More .. Enneageam

測驗結果:
第一型: 1分
第二型: 3分
第三型: 2分
第四型: 5分
第五型: 5分
第六型: 4分
第七型: 6分
第八型: 1分
第九型: 4分

性格形態學 -- 中文問卷

As boss requested us to pick up a topic to discuss with colleagues in China on next Saturday, our team members decided to present the Enneageam in the meeting.

I am reading the online materials to prepare the presentation and completed another test. Seems that I m closer to be the 第七型: 活躍型, 第四型: 自我型 and 第五型: 思考型.

I will learn more in March since I applied the course of Enneageam. I will share more ideas on this here once i completed my course.

对你好

When I read below article fr. 亦舒的BLOG, I really wanna to cry. That's what i feel .. that's what i really want ....... 对你好最重要! for the rest ........ i don't really care much. Is it so difficult to get someone really good to me? not really ....... just the one can stay with me happily, that's important in my eyes.

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对你好（选自《寒武纪》）

对方，不需要很有钱，不必英明神武，是否才华盖世，亦不重要，似不似玉树临风，也无所谓。只要他对你好，事事以你为重，普通人已经够好。

正如大作家所说，条件再好，“不爱我，有什么用？”物质同客观条件固然非常重要，但到了某一地步，人自然有心灵上需求，一个懂得尊重对方的伴侣，谈吐幽默，具生活情趣，又事事体贴，千金不易。

见对方能力略有不逮，即舍之而去，是相当不智做法，世上的确有际遇这回事，要给他机会，也给自己机会，都会遍地黄金，有志者事竟成。成功与欢乐如无人分享，只怕寂寞，还有，流泪之际，缺少一边牢靠的肩膀依傍，更凄惶不分。

物质与精神均感满足，才是优质生活，不用吃最好住最好穿最好，走出来最威风最神气。

崇尚功利，是商业社会至盛风气，无可厚非，有一定要有，优哉游哉，对方若志不在此，实在不必勉强。好伴侣一个鼓励眼神，一个愉快笑容，适当安慰，深切了解，均属生活必需。

对你好最重要。

有人从影数十年，不红，到处诉苦：“我从不迟到，亦不早退，听话，公司叫做什么，便做什么，公司叫做什么，便做什么，至今尚未名成利就，何故？”大有天无眼之感。未红，先骄，是致命伤；不红，不骄，却不计分，光是不迟到不早退，绝无可能造就一位明星，单单听话、服从，甚至不足以成为一位优秀公务员。

做任何一个行业，都得在岗位上有所表现，既红、不骄、不迟到、不早退、敬业乐业、有衣食，那才是高手。职业写作人，不脱稿就算尽了责任？非也非也，此乃最基本入行条件，切勿以为天天交稿就是对编者读者恩重如山、皇恩浩荡。内容才是最最最重要的一环，能人所不能者，地位才能最稳固，稿德稿质，缺一不可。

伴侣变了心，常听到有一方哭诉：“我做错了什么？”同样的逻辑：不错，是不够的，有人做得更好，略差的便遭淘汰，理所当然。什么时势了，光是守行为，便想拿功勋？没有这种事。

对你好（选自《寒武纪》） - 亦舒 - 新浪BLOG

Step Up

pic fr. http://myspace.com/stepupmovie

On my way home, I was listening Confessions Tour sound track (thx sam to burn it into MP3), I would like to dance on the street ! I pumped up an idea to rent some dance movies to watch, that's why i picked up 'Step Up'. I watched it with Mui at cinema before but i would like to review it coz I loved the dance shown in this movie. It is great, still. Suddenly, I think that if I was born in NY or United State, will i be the dancer? Sure, I can be a dancer in HK but as u know, parents wouldnt support me to do this.

This movie is a typical movie for youth... but i still love to watch it. It do make me to recall my days in the Jazz dance class. so funny. and also, the crazy dance in Hei Hei for over 4 hours ... that's so happy. Maybe i should call kin and mui to visit Hei Hei again for the crazy dance night again. That's not a bad idea.

Tarot

從小我便對神秘靈異的活動有興趣, 不知死的我, 五年級已到盛傳學校最猛鬼的地方試玩筆仙. 其他, 什麼銀仙碟仙我都曾經接觸. 最'驚嚇'的一役, 我在家中的鏡裏看見白色物體橫向飄過, 立即有心寒的感覺, 那時的我, 正藉傷心時刻, 所以都不太理會它, 然後回房睡覺.

我喜歡研究神秘學說, 中國易經, 紫微斗數, 西洋星座 ..... 無一放過, 越接觸得多, 發現萬變不離其中, 所謂的命運, 就是你的性格, 做就你所行的道路. 所有一切命理學說, 都只不過是精闢的統計學.但易經不是神怪學說, 是很高深的中國哲學. 我不太懂.... 我想, 再經歷多些人生經驗, 我會比較容易理解固中的道理.

人的潛意識也是很有趣的課題, 點解你會認為某事將會發生, 往後真的發生 (但是沒有任何具體的跟據斷定此事會發生) ... 是所謂的第六感?還是日常你接收了一些訊息, 已存入你的腦內, 當某些事情發生, 腦袋便很自然的歸納平時所知所見 (包括你不為以的事), 立即作出總結. 所以, 潛意識是一樣很神秘的事情. 其中 tarot 便是一種工具解說人的潛意識. 但當中如何清楚解說牌中的意思, 很少人能做得到. 我認識一位女士, 她是一個很好的解說人. Tarot Reader 有點像心理治療師, 她們用一個分析的手法, 令你用其他的角度了解事情的發生及經過, 讓你明白你潛在內心的所思所想. 其實, 我沒有向我的好朋友介紹此位女仕, 若然你真的很有興趣, 我才告知你吧.

說了這麼多.......我其實是想說說她給我解說了一些感情問題及狀況...... 現在的, 不想再說, 你愛便愛, 不愛便祝你幸福快樂 >_< . 往後, 有一個人, 我已經認識的, 會喜歡我吧. (我也喜歡他! 這真的很難.) 一個會教我很多知識的人, 一個極愛思考的人, 一個不容易表露自己心裏所思所想的人........ 我第一時間想起一個人, 我的父親大人. 我真的不知道我身邊有一個類似的人.... 不知道..... 我想, 要來的, 始終會來. 不來的, 再強求, 也是徒然. 當然, 我仍是希望他會立即出現, 不用等到年尾吧!!!!! <-- 這是今年的願望~~~~~hehe.

Pop Diva

I cant resist to buy her concert's DVD coz' I can hardly get this from the video rental store. This time, I made a right choice. I love Madonna becoz' I like her dance, I love her attitude towards her performance. She insists to perform well in every single details. Even she is going to be 50, she didnt stop and still try something new in her show performance.

Her figure ...... I can't think of any words to describe a woman in 50 to keep this shape ........ It is so perfect, I mean, it is all muscles, no fat ! my goodness. After I knew that she is very discipline in her diet and body training (spent around 6 hrs a day), I do think that it is not what the money can solve all problems. Even a person like Madonna needs to pay time and effort on maintaining her shape, I think all HK women should drop the ideas of losing weight by paying over ten thousands dollars for the beauty center to take this job.

I respect a person who is persistent to the thing she / he likes, and pay lots of time and effort to make it perfect, this attract me the most.

Madonna, no way to stop her ....... Too bad i didn't watch her last concert. Anyway, I still get the DVD [silly smile]

Muse

I bought this bracelet from a small store in TST. It is really nice. I love it very much.

It is that simple, but you don't believe it

Just watched a movie named 'The Prestigue', it was a bit boring in the begining ... at last...... the story became interesting as the ending did surprise me. The last few words in the last minute do make me thinking alot.

Now , you are looking for the secret
But you will not find it coz’ you are not really looking
You don’t really want to work it out
You want to be fool

現在你想找出秘訣
但是絕對找不到
因為你沒有真正在看
你並不是真的想知道
你想要被騙

Sometimes, we always want to find the truth but .. deep down, do we really want to find out the truth? Or ... we simply try to search for an answer which can comfort us. We don't really focus on our question, we just want to get what we 'want to hear' from asking this questions. Even we are being cheated or to be fool.

Once we get it . or it is closer to what we expect, we feel more comfortable.

Sometimes, thing is simple, just we deny it so make the things complicated. That is. There is no magic in this world but you still love to watch the magic, coz it gives you a hope.

That's what I really think about after I watched this movie. I do love this movie coz it can deliver some messages which induce me to think alot.

Pretty good for burning the time in Chinese New Year holiday :>

I will go on MUNCH & THE BUTTERFLY LE PAPILLON before Day 3 in CNY.

Wish you all a Happy Chinese New Year. Wish the people I know or even I don't know to enjoy their life in their own way. Pray for the sick and poor (mentally, physically or ... financially) to have a better life. That's my wish in CNY.

P.S. David Bowie played a role in this movie, that's surprise me coz' I cant realize him ... until i read IMDB. OMG, he is one of the performers I respect. Actually, he always explore a new challenge to himself that makes me like him.

YEAH !

張曼玉封偉大表演者

明報OL網

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回望

回望往日的自拍照，很不喜歡．因為很不自然，我想，我都不曾在鏡頭內表現自然的一面．．．．無怪乎．．．

傻傻的我，想拍，便拍吧。早上起床，都拿起相機拍吧．

隨心的，是最好最舒服的．

長者闖情關 人到黃昏也需要愛

今天是情人節，年輕戀人沉醉浪漫中，豔麗的玫瑰、精緻的朱古力、溫馨的燭光晚餐……其實，戀愛並非年輕人的專利，不少喪偶的長者，亦渴望老來覓得第二春，攜手共度黃昏中的情人節廣 告。

長者闖情關 人到黃昏也需要愛 - Yahoo! 新聞

"閒來看書、聽音樂、拖手逛公園等" That's romantic!

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The wonderful VD gift

樹仁大學舉行正名典禮 (14:17)

2007年2月14日香港樹仁大學今日舉行正名典禮，邀請行政長官曾蔭權出席，為「樹仁大學」揭碑。廣 告曾蔭權表示，樹仁以作育英才為己任，以學生的福祉為依歸，獲得「大學」之名，的確實至名歸。他指出，樹仁成為大學，彰顯了胡鴻烈校監和鍾期榮校長35年來對高等教育事業的理想堅持和無私奉獻，也標誌香港高等教育發展史上一個重要里程。

明報即時新聞 - 樹仁大學舉行正名典禮[14:17]

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吳 若 權

機 會 ， 在 河 流 的 彼 岸 ， 你 要 走 過 橋 到 對 面 ， 才 能 碰 到 它 。 」 總 之 ， 這 句 座 右 銘 的 意 思 ， 就 是 要 主 動 創 造 機 會 ， 而 不 是 被 動 等 待 機 會

Lady.atnext.com - 幸 福 人 哈 拉 - 時 間 就 像 是 乳 溝

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I think I will dress up even in the age of 65

當 你 65 歲 的 時 候當 我 65 歲 的 時 候 ， 我 要 不 要 像 Karl Lagerfeld ？ 這 是 個 我 不 用 考 慮 很 久 的 問 題 ， 問 題 是 ， 我 會 不 會 錯 手 把 自 己 弄 成 Karl Lagerfeld 還 以 為 自 己 是 Hedi Slimane ？人 人 都 說 要 age gracefully ， 究 竟 除 了 graceful ， 老 了 還 有 沒 有 其 他 的 選 擇 ？放 棄 ， 不 是 選 擇 ， 雖 然 很 多 人 老 早 揀 了 ， 而 我 到 了 65 歲 時 大 概 已 經 甚 麼 都 穿 過 了 ， 也 許 覺 得 扮 靚 對 一 個 郁 都 氣 喘 、 行 步 路 都 要 扶 枴 杖 的 老 人 來 說 很 辛 苦 ， 但 放 棄 好 看 的 衣 服 ， 或 者 甘 於 平 凡 ， 絕 對 不 是 選 擇 。橫 豎 到 了 那 種 年 紀 ， 睡 也 睡 不 了 那 麼 多 ， 朝 朝 4 點 半 已 經 起 身 ， 何 不 用 來 襯 襯 衫 呢 ？ 難 道 每 一 個 老 人 都 注 定 要 落 樓 下 公 園 仔 做 甩 手 操 耍 八 段 錦 嗎 ？

Text by 黃 偉 文

Lady.atnext.com - Buy me a Sunday by Wyman - 當 你 65 歲 的 時 候

I love Wyman, he loves fashion (same as I) and he can use funny wordings to describe what he see and how he thinks. You can check his articles on Lady.Atnext.com. Enjoy it.

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H & M

MADONNA AND H&M LAUNCH NEW FASHION LINE- 'M by Madonna' Collection debuts in stores March 2007H&M the international retail giant and their head of design Margareta van den Bosch have teamed up with Madonna to create a line of clothing and accessories that are scheduled to arrive in all stores carrying the women’s wear collection, around the world in March 2007, it was announced today.

H&M - Press - MADONNA AND H&M LAUNCH NEW FASHION LINE

OH man ! i m waiting for this coming to HK in March 10.

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Why

I love the melody of this song, really love it. I love the way she sings this song, so appealing.

Avril Lavigne -
Why, do you always do this to me?
Why, couldn't you just see through me?
How come, you act like this
Like you just don't care at all

Do you expect me to believe I was the only one to fall?
I could feel I could feel you near me, even though you're far away
I could feel I could feel you baby, why

It's not supposed to feel this way
I need you, I need you
More and more each day
It's not supposed to hurt this way
I need you, I need you, I need you
Tell me, are you and me still together?
Tell me, do you think we could last forever?
Tell me, why

Hey, listen to what we're not saying
Let's play, a different game than what we're playing
Try, to look at me and really see my heart

Do you expect me to believe I'm gonna let us fall apart?
I could feel I could feel you near me, even when you're far away
I could feel I could feel you baby, why

It's not supposed to feel this way
I need you, I need you
More and more each day
It's not supposed to hurt this way
I need you, I need you, I need you
Tell me, are you and me still together?
Tell me, you think we could last forever?
Tell me, why

So go and think about whatever you need to think about
Go ahead and dream about whatever you need to dream about
And come back to me when you know just how you feel, you feel
I could feel I could feel you near me, even though you're far away
I could feel I could feel you baby, why

It's not supposed to hurt this way
I need you, I need you
More and more each day
It's not supposed to hurt this way
I need you, I need you, I need you
Tell me

It's not supposed to hurt this way
I need you, I need you
More and more each day
It's not supposed to hurt this way
I need you, I need you, I need you
Tell me, are you and me still together?
Tell me, do you think we could last forever?
Tell me, why

Leo's Lyrics Database - Avril Lavigne - Why lyrics

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Pokfulam Public Riding School

I always dream of riding horse to across the Mountain. okay .. this year... i decide to make my dreams comes true.

2007 targets: learn how to ride a horse ! yeah !

Here are the places I m interested to take course there:
Pokfulam Public Riding School
Lo Wu Saddle Club

Pictures fr Pokfulam Public Riding School & Lo Wu Saddle Club

Memory

I am organizing my Photo Album in hard disk today.........I found many funny pictures, It do recall my memories and my old day. It was so happy.

Hope this happy moment would be happen all the time in my life.

P.S. I should grant a prize to the photograher as he / she can make me looking very sexy and girly. Hard to take this kind of pic again :P

Conversation. ....

"I agreed that you are thinking too much about relationship.... To me it
is just simply two person who bump into each other provided timing is
right and there is chance for the two to move on towards to the next
stage ---> a real relationship. Of course there are so many
conditions/criteria under different circumstances since everyone is made
different ...and our requirements are piling up as we age. If you still
have faith in relationship, you shouldn't be thinking too much about why
a person is still available at the age of 30's cos everyone has his/her
past. It is not fair to conclude those who are still single is problemed
one. I won't be able to judge whether one's expectation is realistic or
not because everyone's definition is not the same.

You won't even get 50% chance if you never move your ass to achieve what
you want. Of course it's frustrated if you fail repeatedly.... But
that's the learning process we have been through since we're born. We
all learn from mistakes and failures.... But don't let this to shrink
your confidence/ego .... Those who found you nice but never wanted to
commit to you is just a pretty "lie"... they ain't good enough for you.

You know what is your problem is? You are not bad enough.... And they
are not good enough." fr. A.

"for me, what u said is absolutely right. After my emotional feeling isgone, I still believe that love is sometimes 2 ppl bump into each otherin the right timing, no reasons, no clues, maybe there are stillreasons behind but not easy to calculate it. If we always put all thecriteria on the table and judge why the other one falls for you, thenwe simply kill the romantic feeling !

A person's personality can tell what kind of loverelationship they will have (mine is a perfect example). XXX caseis ... he is a man who loves to think much coz' he wants to increasethe successful rate in the love relationship. Love is something hardto calculate and judge by logical way sometimes. that's my feeling onlove." fr. B.

Special Thanks

Thanks you for you guys' caring, mui, kin, ming, geek, jack .... I know I am stupid on this issue but that's my feeling, I can't cheat myself. This time, I learn the way to present myself and true to myself. I don't hide my tre feeling and deny how I feel. Even.. it is stupid .. that's me.

It is so sweet that Kin proposes to treat me coz' he knows that I feel bad. So cute.

It is so touching that Mui stays with me all the time and searches the courses information to study with me together, to broaden our knowledge and community network. The main purpose is .. to meet more people for creating more interesting stories in our life.

It is so comfortable to chat with Ming, quote fr. his word "yes, tell him : You always pick girl by ur dick sense, why u ask me now? i dont have a dick and i will never able to know what u like. My goodness, it do make me laugh loudly and feeling better .. at that moment :P

Geek ......... I know that you are not a comforter (as you said), but what u said ...... (okay.. indeed you are in natural high mood...must be the result of you drinking some "dirty water" recently), the conversation with you do make me feeling so good. I can only say that you are one of the person who can comfort me in your own special way. No doubt since the first time we make friend with each other. Esp. your joke, do make me can't stop my laugh all the time. Actually, you are crazy in my mind.

Jack ..... well well well ......the conversation came up with your MSN message 'what's wrong with you before?', then i knew that he did read my MSN nick name .... Thanks for your word 'Poor girl' and 'this is not a love relationship', anyway, even we don't chat very often, we still can share our feelings.

At last .. I donno how to say much fancy wordings, but Thanks!

p.s. I took this picture long time ago when I was alone. I was very happy at that moment while testing my mobile. After I read this picture, I can sense my happy feeling fr. this pic.

Individualist

ANNA第 四 型 ： 自 我 型 (Individualist)曾 否 有 人 跟 你 說 ， 你 有 藝 術 家 的 脾 氣 ？ 這 個 自 我 型 就 正 正 是 藝 術 家 的 性 格 - 多 愁 善 感 及 想 像 力 豐 富 ， 會 常 沉 醉 於 自 己 的 想 像 世 界 裡 。 另 一 方 面 ， 由 於 你 是 感 情 主 導 的 人 ， 有 些 工 作 你 唔 "LIKE"就 可 能 會 唔 做 架 啦 ， 不 會 考 慮 責 任 的 問 題 。

ANNA第 九 型 ： 和 平 型 (Peacemaker)在 很 多 情 況 ， 你 們 都 是 和 平 使 者 ， 善 解 人 意 ， 隨 和 。 你 們 很 容 易 了 解 別 人 ， 卻 不 是 太 清 楚 自 己 想 要 什 麼 ， 會 顯 得 優 柔 寡 斷 。 相 對 地 說 ， 你 們 的 主 見 會 比 較 少 ， 寧 願 配 合 其 他 人 的 安 排 ， 做 一 個 很 好 的 支 持 者 ， 所 以 你 是 心 較 被 動 的 。

Enneageam - Test Result

That's me. hm......... i knew that I am No. 4 in Enneageam but i didn't know that I have the personality of No. 9. strange.

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