Happy Birthday to Geek

Stars, originally uploaded by Jessmoon.

okay .. let me sing a song here ...

"Happy Birthday to u
Happy Birthday to u
Happy Birthday to .... AR GEEK
Happy Birthday to u'

YEAH ~~~~~~ what a lovely song !

Best wishes to you and your family to overcome the difficult times. WIsh you to settle down the job issues soon and build up your lovely private area shortly

Vintage Cloth

pic fr Bluebird

I love the vintage clothes selling at this store. Surprise me that Sofia Coppola is one of the Bluebird fans! amazing. I like her as I always think that she is feminine and sexy. She is the muse of Marc Jacobs.

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What happen after I fall down on the street today afternoon (On my way to have lunch with colleagues)

1st) Why me?

2nd) Fucking pain

3rd) Kept slient coz' didn't want to speak

4th) 'Fuck up' , hurted 'inside' .. even no bleeding

5th) Couldn't straight my legs, once did it, so painful

6th) Used the Coca-Cola (Light & Zero) to be the cooler pad, it did help to relief my pain slightly

7th) Finally, got the cooler pad .... felt better

8th) Went back home, dad took the massage to relife my pain

9th) A colorful pic. on my skin around the knees

STILL FUCKING PAINFUL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Qing Dyansty Language

Chinese Village Struggles to Save Dying Language

Chinese Village Struggles to Save Dying Language - New York Times

Where I listen her interview, I think that life is that simple. We can have a happy life with food to eat, cloth to wear... and the lyrics of her song, making me think that life .. is like that. Take care children, working and then feed the family. That is.

How come the life nowadays becomes so complicated? Becoz' people desire too much and never be satisfied.

最放不下愛

Quote fr. CP1897.com

剛剛閱讀完素黑所寫的新書 - 最放不下愛. 當中有不少啟發, 不論在愛情的課題上, 或是情緒管理, 處事的態度及觀事的角度, 都給予我一些的靈感 ..... 最終都是, 如何活得更好. 好像是老新常談的題目. 當中, 愛並不是人生的全部, 但如何去愛..... 我想, 不是那麼多人會認真深究... 因為.. 有很多人的眼中, 所謂愛, 就是尋找符合自身'條件'的人成為'人生夥伴'. '條件'是基本的要求, 如'有錢, 風趣, 穩重, 有型'......人人不同, 或, 要求對方迎合自己而做某些行為去表達這便是愛 ..... 這種的想法, 在我眼中, 某程度上是私慾, 多於所謂'愛'. 當然, 人人對愛的見解不同. 我不會說我很清楚'愛', 但 ... 我有時想 ...我有定下條件嗎? 細心想, 我可以說 ... 真的是chemical的原因 .... 我愛他們的獨特個性. 就是這樣. 所以每當朋友問我, 那樣的男孩你才會有興趣? 坦白說, 我多會大笑然後胡扯說 "有才華, 有型 .... 有趣'.... 其實, 你若是我的好友, 便知道我真得不懂得回答. 我喜歡, 便喜歡. 所以你發現我曾愛上一個人人說他像'叫化子'的人....

無論如何, 書中有些內容, 想和你分享:

'愛' 是很誤導的一個字, 在沒有對等交流和溝通的關係下, 在雙方心智差異太大的情況下, 兩個人走在一起很難藉愛情得到精神滿足和提升. 深刻的愛情是互相提升, 不然便是拖累和糾纏, 結果會瘸朽.

我們可以為別人而活, 但不要為滿足別人而違背自己的原則和意慾, 不然, 妳只會失去幸福.

** 譯錄'最放不下愛'

Can't wait for it

I can't wait for my Ennegram Class in coming Thursday. I hope that I could understand how to use this theory to understand more about other's personality. Then .. I can find the best way to communicate with others. (Btw, I should learn more about how to solve my problem on communication ... that is, I m not patient all the time to listen others. That's my weakeness....)

7、享樂型
有才藝，樂觀的類型。積极主動，才藝廣泛，衝動，精力分散。享樂型在變化、多樣性、刺激和創新方面非常擅長。他們表達清楚，有幽默感，能夠讓其他人支持他們的想法。享樂型總是追赶潮流，尋求新的可能性和觀點。他們能夠同時進行多個工作，但不能堅持。不健康時他們會變得很嘮叨，注意力分散，能量不集中，許多工作都會半途而廢。在他們的最佳狀態時，享樂型會將焦點集中在有价值的目標上，工作會非常有效率。

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4、自我型
愛反省，有藝術才能的類型。表情丰富，能給人深刻的印象，自我吸引，情緒變化無常。自我型散發出獨特的魅力。在他們對好的詞語、創意及個人對產品的影響標 准的追求上，他們不會妥協。他們不喜歡沒有創造力的工作。自我型對批評過度敏感，這一點可能會導致他們變得情緒無常，工作沒有規律。在他們的最佳狀態時， 他們能將直覺力和創造力帶到工作中來，并用他們有深度和獨特的感覺改善工作，他們會欣賞其他的各种型格。

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5、思考型
觀察敏銳，好爭論的類型。求知欲強，創新，注重隱私，古怪。思考型是精力充沛的學習者和實驗家，特別是在專業技術領域。他們喜歡跟從他們的好奇心去理解細 節，探索原理。他們有很強的分析能力，鐘情于探索發現，而不是計划時間去約束和建立關系。他們不健康時可能會變得傲慢，不同他人做溝通，并經常會有思想上 的斗爭。在他們的最佳狀態時，思考型變得有遠見，能夠將全新的理念帶到工作中。

http://www.magnetintl.com/big5/9types1.htm

Spring Dinner @ CN

Had a crazy gathering with all CN team members on this Saturday. Too bad I didn't bring my lovely camera so that I can only take the pictures by Ming's mobile. * I uploaded some pictures in my Flickr Album. *

Who said we can't take pictures by ourselves? My lovely team members.


Fay, he is always my cup of tea to play with. He looks like the daddy in 'Ranma' (JP comic).

Someone said that he looks like Jay Chow (LOL)

See.... everybody gonna to be crazy in the mid-night.

All CN Team Members ~~~~~ okay, that's the boys club.

Gingko House - Support Senior Employment

在經濟及金錢掛帥、汰弱留強制度下的香港社會，長者常誤被冠以社會負累一族，每每所倡之政策，總是注目在提供福利、免費遊樂及醫療。同時，僱主們並不大願意僱用長者，就算本來有工作的亦要被迫退下來，沒空間讓長者繼續發揮所長。然而，政府政策中亦未為長者提供退休、就業輔導或再培訓等服務。

銀杏館::Gingko House

I went to this place tonight with mui. I didn't know the reason to visit this restaurant before i arrived. That's the place to employ the elderly. The boss is willing to employ them and support them to live in their own dignity. I do feel glad that someone is willing to provide an opportunity to the elderly. It seems that we highly appreciate to work fast and efficiency coz' our society is very competitive, we can't afford to lose and waste our time. Every minutes and money counts so that we ask for value all the time. We forgot that there are some people who are less competitive (e.g. inability, elderly) may need our help. That's why I feel happy to know that this place supports the Senior Employment Scheme. The elderly can keep on working and earn for their living. I can take a lovely french cuisine there and support the elderly as well. All waiters provide a nice and friendly service after the training. (Maybe some people may think that the boss uses the elderly as a gimmick to attract ppl ... if u think like that, i feel shame on you ! As you always measure the life in terms of $$$, 'freaking' hell.)

The food is not bad and the place is tidy with a friendly atmosphere. Loving' it :D

* hope mui could feel better after the dinner, that's the best i can do .. chat chat and treat her :D

Happy today

So happy to get a call from someone that's out of my expectation :P It is good to know that you still remember me (strange, I wanted to call him as well but he called me first :P)

So happy to take a great lunch with boss coz' we chatted alot in different subjects

So happy to work with boss coz' he is such a honest person. It is comfortable to chat with him and learn more about the business world from him.

So happy to see 'Bo' doing fine now after the surgery. Hope I would receive a positive testing report fr. NZ next week.

So happy .............. I can stay clam today and sleep early. Thanks dr. leung's herbal tea :D

Happy still ~~~~~~

MBTI Test

That's me ?
對ENFP人的描述：
健談熱誠，友善的﹔聰明好奇，愛玩的﹔關心体貼，溫柔敏感﹔富有想象力，頗具創新精神﹔智慧樂觀，适應能力強，但有時做事無條理。
hm .. interesting. http://kllc5.xddddd.com/mbti/result.php?token=
60e0a0fd5fca7f844ac20f736eb7ed62

MBTI Test~~~

Don't be too good?

You are lack of confidence, others think that you got everything and you are too good to be true, so .. he stepped back. Coz' he deemed that he can't give you anything coz' you got all the things. You are unique, you are smart, you are funny and always catch up new things in your life, but .......... you can't let him to feel that you need him. He thinks it is tired to catch a woman like you coz' you are moving too fast all the time.

okay..... maybe ............. just you think too much. you just love yrself more than you need me. You are interested in me........... just interest, not love.

If i knew your heart feeling early..... i would try my every best to tell you that I need you. I will stop and slow down to let u know it. Too bad, the feeling is gone ..........

I took a good lesson and I will tell all my feelings to next boyfriend! I don't want to feel regret in future.

Thank You - Sue

重新開始，不需要特定的地方、特定的時間，只要你願意，當下就可以是一個新開始。

重新開始 - CrystaLife - CrystaLife - Yahoo! BLOG

Thank you Sue to give me a good interpretation on my love life, my dark side, my problems on dealing with the love relationship. As she said, I knew but I didn't move on to solve this 'problem'. I am clear of what I should do, how to do it and my needs but that is not good enough. The key point is ......... I reject or reluctant to solve it. My problem is

1. don't let go (know the ending but still struggle to maintain the past relationship)
2. afraid of getting lose (no win or lose in love world, how come i forgot it .. i did know after broke up with jack)
3. reluctant or delay to solve the problem (that's the key point)

The card reading is a way to let me learning more about myself. Different card has different story. I do remember one of my cards show a story related to my thinking

"2 monks are crossing the river, a woman needs their help so that one of them carries a lady at his back to cross the river (that is, he touches the lady :P). After the monks went back to the temple, the one who didn't carry the woman make a complaint to the Master that his fellow carried a woman across the river, the key point is 'he touches her !". That's not the right action to a monk. When his fellow listen his complaint, he just replied "this issue is over coz' the woman is gone and we are in the temple now. Why you still remember this? It is finished and gone."

That's the card to describe myself in the love relationship.

Besides, my dark side makes me hard to start a love relationship. Others (new comers) may think that:

- I m protective (True, I am afraid of making friends with stranger sometimes... hard to believe)
- I m not easy to understand (hm .. i think i know the reason...)
- I need a result all the time (?!!, marriage? oh come' on, kidding me)
- I behave different after fall for this guy (?!!, maybe, just become ......... more soft)
- I m picky (?!! if i m picky, i guess, i m attracted by someone who can share similar interests and thinking with me, i know, it is not easy to get it in HK society..... )

Then ... why others interest in me ? Key point is

My personality (hm ... maybe, a bit different with 'typical HK gal', always catch rare thinking in others' eyes. Simply speaking, they found that this lady is interesting)
Man will not have -ve feeling on me, most of them are willing to know more about me

But the consequence is .. maybe boys feel that they need an ordinary girlfriend after they come with me together. (No wonder, all my boyfriends got a 'unique' character, otherwise, hard to get along with me :P)

Anyway, I m blessing to the one I loved before (not many, but i did have a happy time with them). Right now, I will move forward. That is.

P.S. If you have time, read this. That's one of Sue's card reading story, I feel so touching after I read it ...... )

Sue's contact no: 82360294 (just tell her that you are referred by 'Jessica'). That is.