Conversation. ....

"I agreed that you are thinking too much about relationship.... To me it
is just simply two person who bump into each other provided timing is
right and there is chance for the two to move on towards to the next
stage ---> a real relationship. Of course there are so many
conditions/criteria under different circumstances since everyone is made
different ...and our requirements are piling up as we age. If you still
have faith in relationship, you shouldn't be thinking too much about why
a person is still available at the age of 30's cos everyone has his/her
past. It is not fair to conclude those who are still single is problemed
one. I won't be able to judge whether one's expectation is realistic or
not because everyone's definition is not the same.

You won't even get 50% chance if you never move your ass to achieve what
you want. Of course it's frustrated if you fail repeatedly.... But
that's the learning process we have been through since we're born. We
all learn from mistakes and failures.... But don't let this to shrink
your confidence/ego .... Those who found you nice but never wanted to
commit to you is just a pretty "lie"... they ain't good enough for you.

You know what is your problem is? You are not bad enough.... And they
are not good enough." fr. A.

"for me, what u said is absolutely right. After my emotional feeling isgone, I still believe that love is sometimes 2 ppl bump into each otherin the right timing, no reasons, no clues, maybe there are stillreasons behind but not easy to calculate it. If we always put all thecriteria on the table and judge why the other one falls for you, thenwe simply kill the romantic feeling !

A person's personality can tell what kind of loverelationship they will have (mine is a perfect example). XXX caseis ... he is a man who loves to think much coz' he wants to increasethe successful rate in the love relationship. Love is something hardto calculate and judge by logical way sometimes. that's my feeling onlove." fr. B.