Puzzling, heistate on life direction, scare to make decisions, no confidence to chase for what we love .... who didn't have this problem when we were young? Chat with friend's sister, she lost confidence to take the offer coz' one of the interviewers questioned her ability on design subject. Being one of her sister's friend, I could only share more my feelings and thoughts with her. Be frank, I got the same experience before. I got a job which I love but I didn't have confidence to pick it. At last, I didn't accept the offer. I knew the power of 'lack of confidence'. This is what happen in 2004.When I looked back, I would not make the same decision. I must take the offer now. Learn from this experience, I know that I will go for my love and interest if there is a chance. I prefer to lose after I tried it, rather than feeling regret to let the chance gone. Sometimes, we should have guts to make the move. What is right? What is wrong? noone can tell and judge our life except ourselves. We are not living for other people. Doesnt' mean that we don't respect others, what I am doing, just try to strike a balance between what I want in my life and live harmony with other people and the world. I will have confidence to make the decision when I know that no harm to get lose. Not all the things / time we have to get win, or we have to be a successful person. Life is an experience, no win or lose, no right or wrong, just experience it. Through the experience, I can find what I want and understand more about myself. Finally ....... I know the meaning of my existence in this world, maybe .. becoz' my father needs me ... or .. I can save ar Bo's life ......... I can enjoy a happy moment with my friends ........... it maybe just a part of my life experience, but this is one of the reasons why I am here.
So .................... at last, what's the big deal if we get loose ? what's the big deal to make stupid move? Nope ........... just experience it. You will know more.
* Best wishes to my love Fare Wong and her baby. I feel so touching after read Li Ngai Pang's blog ... "我们希望我们的女儿将来也能面对她的人生。我们希望当有异样眼光看她的时候，她能还以自信而热情的微笑，那她才是降临到这个世界的神灵" ......... I believe their baby is a lucky gal coz' her parents love her so much.
2 comments:
yes, i think wing shan was in a pickle and share yr exp. with her is good. but don't know what she thought, maybe we hv age gap. we grow in diff environment & culture.
what can i say? she's really still young? actually i feel many youg guys can't live under pressure, even just a bit. maybe they are living in a much protective environment, and no one tell them how to survive in this world.
"We are not living for other people. Doesnt' mean that we don't respect others, what I am doing, just try to strike a balance between what I want in my life and live harmony with other people and the world." here's what u said but sometimes i think u can't do it. maybe u don't remember and u're not serios, but when i heard u didn't want to tell "them" the special wedding banquet pack. fr. maggie, i really felt disappointed to u. what's the matter??? how come u become so "small gas"? even u don't want to share with them, it's not need to tell us. hope it's my misunderstanding & u can do what u believe.
hm ... I don't think that child and the youth can't live under pressure now, they have to take many interest classes after school and handle many examination / homeworks on the same time... i think .. they are already suffering a heavy pressure right now. What i think is .. they donno how to make decision sometimes. As they don't have chances to make their own decision, their parents choose for them already.
Wing Shan felt no confidence to make the decision, hope that she could learn much when she grows up :D
I couldn't remember the case you referred to. THEM .. = Who? Maybe I told this to u guys coz' i wanted to share with u all. With the believe I think, I try to do it. If I didn't or couldn't, then I should learn it still. As what i said, life is just an experience, learn whatever we did, at last, I will know what the best for myself.
thx for your long long comments kakak. i like it :P finally, got an interaction with friend on my blog ! yeah!
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